We spend a lot of time trying to be logical. Rational. Measurable.
But there’s another kind of knowing that doesn’t announce itself with data points or dashboards. It’s quieter. Slower. Felt more than proven.
It’s intuition.
Not the New Age version. Not magical thinking or gut feelings masquerading as truth. I’m talking about the grounded, inner signal that helps us make sense of things before we can explain why.
We all have it. But most of us aren’t taught how to recognize it, much less trust it.
What Intuition Isn’t
As expected, there is some confusion around what intuition is, or isn’t.
Intuition isn’t a shortcut to being right. It doesn’t override critical thinking. It doesn’t shout over every doubt. And it’s not some mystical sixth sense reserved for the spiritual elite.
It’s also not emotion. Emotions can be loud, impulsive, and often rooted in past wounds or future fears. Intuition is calmer than that. Less reactive. More patient.
It’s not a replacement for data either. In fact, in a world full of noise, alerts, recommendations, predictive algorithms,intuition is how we stay human in the loop. It’s what reminds us that context matters. That lived experience can’t be quantified. That some truths arrive through attention, not output.
So, What Is Intuition?
Intuition works like an internal orientation system. It works beneath language, below the surface of conscious reasoning. You feel it in the body before you can explain it in words.
It’s the sense you get when something feels off, even if everything “looks good on paper.” It’s what draws you toward a path you didn’t plan, but somehow know is yours. It’s the subtle tug, the inner pause, the gentle yes or no that comes before your brain catches up.
Think of it like an analog signal in a digital world…less crisp, but more alive.
Why It Really Matters
Because we live in a culture shaped by metrics and machine logic, we risk flattening our experience into what can be tracked. Intuition resists that.
It invites complexity. It slows us down. It keeps us connected to the parts of ourselves that haven’t been programmed yet.
Intuition doesn’t always give you the full answer, but it often tells you where to look. It’s the compass before the directions.
In leadership, creativity, parenting, relationships, intuition won’t hand you a strategy deck. But it might keep you from betraying your values. It might stop you from pushing forward when waiting is wiser. It might guide you toward what’s meaningful instead of what’s merely popular.
How to Hear Your Own Intuition
Here are some practical steps:
Create quiet You can’t hear intuition when you’re reacting to everything. Turn off notifications. Mute the feed. Step away from the algorithmic chatter. Intuition speaks in stillness.
Pay attention to your body Where do you feel openness? Where do you feel constriction? The body registers truth faster than the brain. Not with drama…just clarity.
Notice patterns Over time, has a certain kind of decision led to regret or peace? Your past intuitive ‘hits’ can teach you what your inner “yes” or “no” feels like.
Practice pause Before replying. Before accepting. Before acting. Give yourself 10 extra seconds—or 10 hours. Urgency drowns out intuition. Spaciousness invites it in.
Ask quieter questions Not “What should I do?” Try: “What’s the most honest next step?” “What’s tugging at me right now?” “What feels settled, and what feels strained?”
Test it gently Intuition deepens with use. Start small. What’s the best way to spend the next hour? What feels nourishing instead of numbing?
A Final Thought
In our media-saturated world where everything competes for your attention, intuition doesn’t beg. It waits.
Not for perfection. Not for you to always get it “right”. Just for you to listen.
It won’t always speak in full sentences. But if you stay with it and return to it…it will start to speak more clearly.
And when it does, you’ll notice something. You’ll begin to trust that you don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to stay in honest relationship with the signal that says, “This is right for me. I feel this way for a reason.”
It’s not a hack. It’s not a shortcut. It’s wisdom.
And it’s yours.
Lovely post. It’s really difficult deciphering what is intuition vs limiting beliefs and attachment styles. I’m going through that battle right now as I try to get back into the dating world. I’m noticing a difference between my head, heart, and gut. My head is filled with anxious avoidant attachment style feedback, my heart with the desire for deep connection, and my gut giving me this knowing pinch that who I’m with right now despite looking good on paper isn’t for me. It’s been devastatingly exhausting trying to parse through all these thoughts and feelings and coming to some sort of conclusion on what to do.